Jan 30 2009
C’mon Ladies
Dear Friends,
I appreciate your understanding during our recent conversations and regret having to share my stress level with each of you. It’s a predicament I put myself in a long time ago, but thought that as adults things would be different. They’re not.
I was originally excited about my upcoming visit, but then some of you totally stressed me out with your decisions not to be around each other. I have limited time and want to see you all, as well as spend time with my parents, and the fact that some of you would rather NOT be in the same room with others left me feeling like I had to choose who to invite to our dinner party. I do not want to be in the middle and NOT invite anyone. I also would not like to explain to each of you that someone else does not want to be around you, or that you don’t want to be around someone (and it’s not even the same person who doesn’t want to be around you). I’ve spoken with each of you involved and feel better in doing so. I’ve decided to invite you all, let you know who else is invited, and let YOU make the decision on wether or not you can attend.
I hope everyone will come. It will be a wonderful time. Great Food and Wine. A group of High School Buddies now all MOMS. Surely we can use this common ground to all get along.
I love you All like Sisters.
Shelly



